When British people (and others in the UK, Ireland, and certain Commonwealth countries) put an “X” at the end of a message, it typically signifies a kiss. It’s a common practice in informal communication, such as in text messages, emails, or even handwritten notes, to show affection, friendship, or warmth.
The “X” is part of a tradition where:
- The “X” represents a kiss, often in a friendly or affectionate context.
- The “O” represents a hug, though it’s less commonly used in the UK than the “X.”
For example:
- “Love you, X” or “Thanks, X” means “Love you” or “Thank you” with an affectionate gesture.
- “Take care, XOXO” could be seen in more international contexts, where the “X” (kiss) and “O” (hug) are combined to express warmth or friendship.
It’s important to note that the usage of “X” varies between individuals and social contexts. While it’s often lighthearted and friendly, in some cases, it might represent deeper affection (like romantic love), depending on the relationship between the sender and the recipient.
Historical Context:
- The use of the “X” to represent a kiss dates back to the Middle Ages when people who couldn’t read or write would sign documents with an “X” as a mark of sincerity. They would then kiss the “X” to affirm their honesty or commitment, hence associating the “X” with a kiss.