In The Great Gatsby by F. Scott Fitzgerald, Nick Carraway first meets Jay Gatsby at one of Gatsby’s lavish parties. Unlike most guests, Nick receives a personal invitation. During the event, Nick starts a casual conversation with a man, discussing their shared experiences during World War I. While talking, Nick mentions he hasn’t yet met Gatsby, unaware he is speaking to the host himself. The man then reveals that he is Jay Gatsby, surprising Nick.
This encounter highlights Gatsby’s approachable demeanor, which contrasts with the mysterious and extravagant image others associate with him, setting the tone for their friendship.