In Hawaiian culture, language is deeply connected to values of respect, harmony, and spirituality. When expressing condolences, you’ll find that the words not only reflect the sentiment of peace but also of love and a deep connection to the deceased.
“E ola i ka maluhia”
- E ola means “to live” or “may you live.”
- Ka maluhia means “the peace” or “peace.” So, the phrase “E ola i ka maluhia” can be translated as “May you live in peace,” or more loosely, “May you rest in peace.” It’s a gentle, respectful blessing for the deceased to be at peace in the afterlife.
“Aloha wau ia’oe”
- Aloha means “love,” “peace,” or “affection.”
- Wau means “I” or “me.”
- Ia’oe means “you.” While this phrase is more directly translated to “I love you,” in a cultural context, it can be used as a way to express deep affection, even after someone has passed. The sentiment here is one of connection and love, carrying the hope that the deceased is at peace.
Cultural Context:
In Hawaiian culture, death is not seen as an end but as a transition. The spirit is believed to continue its journey in a different form, and peace is an important aspect of that journey. Therefore, expressing wishes for peace (maluhia) reflects the desire for a smooth, harmonious continuation of the spirit’s journey. Hawaiian funeral traditions often include chants (oli), prayers ( pule), and other expressions of respect and aloha for the deceased.
Additional Expressions of Condolence:
- “Aloha” – Used to express both hello and goodbye, “Aloha” also carries the meaning of love and peace, and is often said as part of final farewells.
- “E mālama pono” – This translates to “Take good care” or “Take care in the right way,” a sentiment also expressed to someone who has passed, wishing them well in the afterlife.
These phrases are more than just words; they embody the Hawaiian worldview that life, death, and the spiritual journey are intertwined with respect, love, and peace.